Co-parenting can refer to the shared responsibility of raising a child by both parents, even after separation or divorce. In the context of family law, co-parenting ensures that both parents continue to play an active role in their child’s life, despite the breakdown of their relationship. It prioritises the child’s best interests, ensuring that they receive care, guidance, and support from both parents.
Two parents, Sarah and Mark, who have recently separated but share care of their 8-year-old son, Liam. They both agree on a parenting plan that allows Liam to spend weekdays with Sarah, as she lives closer to his school, and weekends with Mark. Both parents treat each other with respect and courtesy.
To ensure consistency, Sarah and Mark communicate regularly about Liam’s schoolwork, discipline issues, extra-curricular activities, and any health concerns. Even though they live in separate homes, they make decisions together about Liam’s education and healthcare as some examples, ensuring he has a stable and supportive environment. Both parents attend Liam’s school events and share the responsibility of transportation, without involving him in any disagreements they might have.
This approach allows Liam to benefit from the care and involvement of both parents while maintaining a sense of routine and security.
In Australia, co-parenting comes with significant legal responsibilities. Under the Family Law Act 1975, if a parenting order is in place providing for joint decision-making about major long-term issues, then both parents must make certain important decisions about their child’s upbringing together. These decisions can include matters like education, healthcare, and religious upbringing. However, joint decision-making about major long-term issues does not necessarily mean equal time spent with the child, as this is determined by what is in the best interests of the child.
It can be useful for parents to formalise parenting arrangements, either through a Parenting Plan or applying for a Parenting Order, to avoid misunderstandings and ensure that everyone involved knows their responsibilities.
For families facing disputes or complex situations, seeking legal advice can be helpful. Daykin Family Law offers expert guidance to help parents reach fair, legally sound parenting arrangements that take into account the best interest of the child. With a focus on minimising conflict and prioritising the child’s well-being, Daykin Family Law ensures that families can navigate co-parenting with clarity and support.
Financial responsibility is a crucial aspect of co-parenting, and both parents are expected to contribute to the costs of raising their child, even after separation. Child support is designed to help cover essential expenses such as schooling, healthcare, and daily living costs. The amount each parent contributes typically depends on factors such as income, the number of children, and the time spent with each parent.
It’s important to ensure that child support arrangements are appropriate and meet the child’s needs. For more details on how child support is calculated and what obligations co-parents may have, you can read our blog on How Much is Child Support in Australia?. Understanding these financial responsibilities helps create a stable environment for the child, ensuring their well-being is always prioritised.
Parents can also enter into private agreements regarding child support. Read more about this option.
Clear, respectful, and regular communication is key to ensuring both parents stay informed about their child’s needs and activities. Use email, messaging apps, or scheduled calls to keep conversations focused and constructive.
Several apps are designed to help manage co-parenting logistics, such as shared calendars, expense tracking, and communication. Apps like OurFamilyWizard and 2Houses can assist in organising schedules and keeping everything documented for smooth communication and understanding.
Consistency is important for children, especially after a separation. Creating a structured routine for your child that is upheld in both households can lead to co-parenting success. This includes meal times, bedtimes, and school activities. Consistency reduces stress for the child and helps them adjust to the new family dynamics.
While co-parenting requires communication, it’s essential to set clear boundaries about each other’s personal lives. Respecting these boundaries ensures a more harmonious co-parenting relationship, allowing both parents to focus on their child’s needs.
Disagreements are bound to happen, but when they become difficult to resolve, consider seeking mediation. Family mediation provides a neutral space where parents can address conflicts and come to mutually beneficial agreements.
For more insight on how to go about successful co parenting see our article on Co-Parenting Essentials: Effective Strategies That Work.
While co-parenting can often be managed amicably, there are certain situations where seeking legal advice is necessary to ensure the best outcome for both parents and children.
If parents are unable to agree on where the child will live, how much time they will spend with each parent, or other key issues, legal advice can help resolve disputes. A family lawyer can guide you through dispute resolution processes such as mediation, or assist in drafting a Parenting Plan or applying for a Parenting Order.
If there are concerns about your child’s safety due to family violence, neglect, or abuse, it’s crucial to urgently seek legal help immediately. Family lawyers can assist in applying for court orders to ensure the child’s protection, including urgent applications if needed.
If there has been a significant change in circumstances – such as relocation, changes in employment, or health concerns, that affects existing parenting arrangements, seeking legal advice can help you navigate the necessary adjustments or amendments that may need to be proposed or applied for in relation to court orders.
If the other parent is not following the agreed Parenting Plan or court-ordered arrangements, legal action can be necessary. A lawyer can help with enforcement of the existing orders, negotiate new terms, or take necessary legal action to ensure compliance in some circumstances.
If one parent wishes to relocate or take the child overseas, and the other parent does not agree, legal advice should be sought. This ensures that any moves comply with family law.
Seeking legal advice ensures that your parental rights are protected and that the arrangements you make are in the best interests of your child. At Daykin Family Law, our experienced family lawyers are here to provide guidance and support throughout the co-parenting process, helping you reach legally sound solutions that work for everyone involved. Get in touch with ShannonDaykin and her team today!
Separation and divorce bring many challenges, especially when there are children involved. In fact, one of the most common questions our clients ask us is: how much is child support in Australia?
Thankfully, the Australian child support system is designed to facilitate appropriate contributions from both parents towards their children’s everyday expenses. Set formulas are used to determine how much child support a person will pay, based on several key variables, which we will outline for you. And with the median marriage lasting 9 years until separation and 13 years until a finalised divorce, know that you are not alone.
Daykin Family Law provide personalised advice that aligns with the highest standards of Australian family law. If our article doesn’t answer the questions you have, don’t hesitate to reach out to us so we can assist you. Let us help you secure a stable financial future for your children.
Child support is a financial obligation paid by one parent to the other, aimed at contributing to the everyday living expenses of their children following separation or divorce. Its core purpose is to ensure that children maintain a standard of living that closely resembles what they might have enjoyed had their family remained intact. This system underscores the principle that both parents bear equal responsibility for their children’s expenses and financial security and generally leads to more positive outcomes for children who are in this situation through no fault of their own.
In Australia, child support is predominantly governed by the Child Support (Assessment) Act 1989, alongside the Family Law Act 1975 (Cth) in some cases. These pieces of legislation establish the rules for assessing, collecting, and transferring child support payments, ensuring that the process is transparent, and considers the financial capacity of each parent. The Department of Human Services (DHS), through its Child Support Program, administers these laws, providing a structured approach to help parents manage their child support arrangements efficiently and equitably.
To determine the child support amount, the DHS uses a child support assessment formula that examines the situation of both parents. There are six different formulas used to calculate the child support amount, which can be difficult to understand – but that’s OK, we’re here to help!
In most cases, the annual amount of child support will be calculated using Formula 1, the Basic Child Support Formula. This formula is used for single child support assessments where only the parents provide care for the children and neither parent has another child support assessment case.
Let’s look at the steps to calculate child support. After outlining the initial steps, we go through an example with Bob and Mary and their child support costs for their 9-year-old daughter – jump to this if you want a more concrete explanation! If we use the Basic Child Support Formula as provided by the Australian Government’s Guides to Policy, child support is calculated as follows:
Start by determining the child support income for each parent. You calculate this by looking at a parent’s taxable income and subtracting the amount each parent would need to support themselves individually.
Add both parent’s child support incomes together for a total.
Divide each parent’s child support income by the total child support income to get their income percentage.
This is the amount of time each parent spends caring for the child which influences the support calculation, with more significant care responsibilities potentially reducing the financial obligation.
Based on the care percentage, use the chart to identify the extent to which each parent contributes to the child’s costs through direct care.
Care percentage | Equal to number of nights a year | Equal to number of nights a fortnight | Care level | Cost percentage |
0-13% | 0-51 | 1 | Less than regular care | 0% |
14-34% | 52-127 | 2-4 | Regular care | 24% |
35-47% | 128-175 | 5-6 | Shared care | 25% plus 2% for every percentage point over 35% of care |
48-52% | 176-189 | 7 | Shared care | 50% |
53-65% | 190-237 | 8-9 | Shared care | 51% plus 2% for every percentage point over 53% of care |
66-86% | 238-313 | 10-12 | Primary care | 76% |
87-100% | 314-365 | 13-14 | More than primary care | 100% |
This step involves subtracting the cost percentage from the income percentage for each parent, to calculate the child support percentage. This determines who pays and who receives child support.
If the child support percentage is negative, this parent will receive child support.
If the child support percentage is positive, this parent will pay child support.
There may be different arrangements for different children, therefore there may be different support percentages for each child.
*Steps 7 and 8 use only the positive child support percentage.
Work out the cost of each child based on the parents’ total combined child support income and by using the charts below:
Children aged 12 and under
Parents combined child support income | Cost of 1 child | Cost of 2 children | Cost of 3 or more children |
$0 to $42,695 | 17c for each $1 | 24c for each $1 | 27c for each $1 |
$42,696 to $85,389 | $7,258 plus 15c for each $1 over $42,695 | $10,247 plus 23c for each $1 over $42,695 | $11,528 plus 26c for each $1 over $42,695 |
$85,390 to $128,084 | $13,662 plus 12c for each $1 over $85,389 | $20,067 plus 20c for each $1 over $85,389 | $22,628 plus 25c for each $1 over $85,389 |
$128,085 to $170,778 | $18,785 plus 10c for each $1 over $128,084 | $28,606 plus 18c for each $1 over $128,084 | $33,302 plus 24c for each $1 over $128,084 |
$170,779 to $213,473 | $23,054 plus 7c for each $1 over $170,778 | $36,291 plus 10c for each $1 over $170,778 | $43,549 plus 18c for each $1 over $170,778 |
Income over $213,473 Costs don’t go up past this cap | $26,043 | $40,561 | $51,234 |
Children aged 13 or older
Combined child support income for one year | Cost of 1 child | Cost of 2 children | Cost of 3 or more children |
$0 to $42,695 | 23c for each $1 | 29c for each $1 | 32c for each $1 |
$42,696 to $85,389 | $9,820 plus 22c for each $1 over $42,695 | $12,382 plus 28c for each $1 over $42,695 | $13,662 plus 31c for each $1 over $42,695 |
$85,390 to $128,084 | $19,213 plus 12c for each $1 over $85,389 | $24,336 plus 25c for each $1 over $85,389 | $26,897 plus 30c for each $1 over $85,389 |
$128,085 to $170,778 | $24,336 plus 10c for each $1 over $128,084 | $35,010 plus 20c for each $1 over $128,084 | $39,706 plus 29c for each $1 over $128,084 |
$170,779 to $213,473 | $28,605 plus 9c for each $1 over $170,778 | $43,549 plus 13c for each $1 over $170,778 | $52,087 plus 20c for each $1 over $170,778 |
Income over $213,473 Costs don’t go up past this cap | $32,448 | $49,099 | $60,626 |
Children of mixed ages
Combined Child Support income for one year | Cost of 2 children | Cost of 3 or more children |
$0 to $42,695 | 26.5c for each $1 | 29.5c for each $1 |
$42,696 to $85,389 | $11,314 plus 25.5c for each $1 over $42,695 | $12,595 plus 28.5c for each $1 over $42,695 |
$85,390 to $128,084 | $22,201 plus 22.5c for each $1 over $85,389 | $24,763 plus 27.5c for each $1 over $85,389 |
$128,085 to $170,778 | $31,807 plus 19c for each $1 over $128,084 | $36,504 plus 26.5c for each $1 over $128,084 |
$170,779 to $213,473 | $39,919 plus 11.5c for each $1 over $170,778 | $47,818 plus 19c for each $1 over $170,778 |
Income over $213,473 Costs don’t go up past this cap | $44,829 | $55,930 |
Multiply the positive child support percentage by the cost of the child to determine the annual rate of child support that will be paid.
These steps are designed to ensure that child support payments are equitable and reflect the financial capabilities of each parent, the needs of the child, and the practicalities of the care arrangements.
Now, let’s look at an example.
Bob and Mary are calculating their child support payments. Bob makes $98,463 per year, and Mary makes $58,463. Now let’s go through the formula step by step.
The self-support amount is defined as taxable income – one third of the MTAWE (Male Total Average Weekly Earnings). The self-support amount will be the same for both parents. In 2024, the MTAWE is $85,389, meaning the self-support amount is $85,389/3=$28,463. You can find out the MTAWE and self-support amount for a given year here.
Bob | Mary | |
Taxable Income | $98,463 | $58,463 |
Self-support amount | $28,463 | $28,463 |
Child support income (taxable income – self-support amount) | $98,463 – $28,463 =$70,000 | $58,463 – $28,463 =$30,000 |
So Bob’s child support income is $70,000 and Mary’s is $30,000.
This is very simple, we simply add each of their child support incomes.
$70,000 + $30,000 = $100,000
For this, we divide each parent’s child support income by the combined child support incomes.
So, for Bob this would be:
$70,000 / 100,000 x 100 = 70%
And for Mary it would be:
$30,000 / 100,000 x 100 = 30%
Bob takes care of the child for 3 nights every fortnight, with Mary taking charge for the other 11. This means Bob is a regular carer and Mary is a primary carer.
Using the table above, we can see that Bob’s cost percentage is 24% and Mary’s is 76%.
So for this we subtract the cost percentage from the income percentage.
Bob: 70% – 24% = 46%
Mary: 30% – 76%= -46%
As Mary’s child support percentage is negative, she will be the one receiving child support.
Bob and Mary only have one child, who is 9 years old. As their combined child support income is $100,000, they sit in the $85,390 to $128,084 bracket, as seen in the relevant table above. This means the cost of their child is calculated as $13,662 plus 12c for each $1 their combined child support income is over $85,389.
So, we’d calculate as follows:
$100,000 – $85,389 = $14,611
$14,611 x $0.12 = $1,753.32
$13,662 + $1753.32 = $15,415 (rounded to the nearest dollar)
This means that the cost of Bob and Mary’s child is $15,415 per year.
We’re almost there! Now we just need to multiply the cost of the child by Bob’s child support percentage as he’ll be the one paying.
So this is $15,415 x 46% = $7,091 (rounded to the nearest dollar). This means Bob has to pay $7,091 in child support to Mary each year, which works out to roughly $136 per week.
For the most current information on minimum and maximum child support payments, including any conditions that might apply, parents should refer directly to Services Australia. This resource provides up-to-date guidelines and tools to help parents understand their obligations and entitlements within Australia’s child support framework. The above is some general information only and is subject to change.
Daykin Family Law offers specialised guidance to parents seeking to establish, adjust, or understand child support agreements. Our team of child support lawyers is dedicated to ensuring that your child support arrangements are appropriate, compliant, and structured with the best interests of your child at heart. For personalised advice that aligns with the highest standards of Australian family law, contact Daykin Family Law today. Let us help you secure a stable financial future for your children.